Thomas Paine wrote in the late 1700’s a book “Common Sense”. Here is an excerpt.

…some writers have so confounded society with government as to leave little or no distinction between them;

whereas they are not only different, but have different origins.

Society is produced by our wants, and government by our wickedness;

The former promotes Positively by uniting our affections,

The latter Negatively by restraining our vices.

The one encourages intercourse, the other creates distinctions.

The first (society) a patron, the last (government) a punisher.

These are the times that try men’s souls